The conversation in Battlegrounds tend to get a little nasty when the plot unravels, particularly since it is usually the point where we start loosing big time. Frustration hits and it all goes downhill from here. The talkers tend to have very little sympathy. On the one hand, there's the frustrated experienced player who knows exactly how to win, but need the help of all the other players to do, but since they are unable to provide the help needed, the battle goes pear shaped. The comments here tend to be derogatory remarks to unskilled, unexperienced and weekend Noobs. The comeback tend to be somewhat less vicious, but only serve the fuel the flames. The person taking offence react defensively, generally taking the line that the game is a team effort and if the team is loosing, all members of the team are equally at fault for not making it work. Both are extreme points of few that only fuel a circular argument which then start to take priority over the actual game play.
New to the battlegrounds myself, I tend to feel as if the Noob comments hit home just a little. I am new. However, I have done my homework and know the strategy for each battleground. I have also done my homework on my class and what my various roles within a battleground may be. Each battleground also adds to that experience; playing with other, more experienced players teaches me how to play better and playing with less experienced players teaches me how it all comes apart. That said, I've won a few battlegrounds with a group of badly geared new players and I've lost spectacularly where more experienced players have not pulled their weight. Generalizations aren't always a good thing.
My frustration is rarely connected to the actual game play. It's a repetitive process and every play has an experience to offer. There is certain advantages to occasionally selecting a lesser role to play. At the end of a long day, I may feel like playing a little, but not up for a major intellectual assault. Picking a smaller BG and choosing to defend a base that doesn't see much action rather than playing offense suits me then. I'm not there for the honor kills or the win, I'm just there to have fun and get my badge at the end. If I do feel like putting everything into it, there's always to options - go for the win or go for the kill. It always starts off as going for the win, but once things fall apart entirely, I tend to give up any hope of actually winning and just try to join the battle and fight non-stop through to the end. It serves two purposes: (i) I get the highest level of honor kills I can get and (ii) pulling out all the stops may actually swing the battle back towards a win.
My frustration in the battlegrounds is triggered by the chatters. The ones who prefer throwing derogatory comments to clumsy players rather than giving them a few pointers. The ones who spend so much time shifting the blame that there can't possibly be time to actually be playing at the same time. The ones who give up once the odds swing against them and stop fighting the second they start to loose and begin spamming the chat channel with 'gz horde' and a string of sarcastic comments.
There seem to be a small minority (I hope), of experience players who feel that they are entitled to a well organised, well geared and well played battleground whenever they log on. There also seems to be a huddle of pessimists who are defensive and defeatest and doesn't seem to enjoy being there at all.
The biggest issue I am coming across in the BGs are one of thinking styles. My alliance buddies have a tendency to focus on the philosophy of the battleground and whilst listening to the chat, I can almost forget that I'm actually in a battleground. The conversation is more like a debate had over conjured manna biscuits whilst reclining on plush chair.
What comes around goes around. Slagging off the newbs tend to create timid and passive ranks, where nobody does anything and brave carebears go back to crafting. Conversely, if a few negative comments get your back up, the intensity of battlegrounds are probably not for you.
There is fun to be had in battlegrounds. If you can win, great. If you can play in a well-structured group, fantastic. If you can find a frontier where a handful of mates are throwing in everything and your play consists out of killed and be killed repetitively, I'm satisfied. And if nobody else plays, there's always the kamikaze moves that's great fun. As someone demonstrated fabulously yesterday in The Eye of the Storm, by diving from the starting point whilst screaming "Charge!" and "For Gnomeregan", as the Horde advanced en masse whilst all the Alliance players sat like a group of wet chickens on the hill. Pretty hilarious that. He also managed to take out two players in the process, the Horde just stood there and didn't know quite what to make of it, stood there long enough for two to be slaugtered by a gnome mage. Fantastic. Now that's the spirit of the battleground.